Finding help to save a marriage is one of the best things you can do. Just like everything else, if you have a problem, there is no point in just trying to figure it out yourself. There have been thousands of people that went through the same thing you did, why should you have to figure it out on your own?
Since this is such a sensitive subject, many struggling husbands will turn to the internet for advice. With a barrage of options out there, it may be hard to make a decision on where to actually go. There are probably lots of marriage counselors available (that cost a fortune), there are friends that give bad advice, and books you can buy, and internet products. Take a good hearty look at what is available and you can decide for yourself what can provide the most value to you.
Since were in the day and age of the internet, I think that internet products are the best way to go. They usually deliver the most value for your money and generally have an awesome return policy or some sort of money back guarantee (which you wont find with anything thing else, especially counseling).
Take a look through a few…. try some internet searches like “your marriage savior” and see the reviews. They are probably mostly positive, since the system actually works. But honestly you have to make a decision for yourself. Ask yourself, “Would this money be worth saving my marriage?”… More than likely it’s at least worth a shot since divorces can be so expensive…. let alone all the emotional struggle of finding a new wife, dealing with possessions, money, maybe kids…. etc.
Anyways, I hope that you consider your options when trying to save your marriage, but the most important thing is that you do SOMETHING. Take action one way or another. It won’t resolve it’self magically on its own, you’re going to need a proven system to get it back to functioning.
Good luck to you!